Ok so I totally understand the concept of asexuality, but like, I just saw this guy I know, and a thought I had was: wow I’d totally have sex with him. I’m guessing asexual people don’t think or feel like that? I’m trying very hard to understand it
*raises hand*
I can look at someone and appreciate the aesthetics of them, like oh, she’s pretty, oh, he has a nice face/nice shoulders, but the thought of me touching them or them touching me is like “NOPE” and if someone tries I will defend my personal space to the death. I don’t understand physical attraction. Like, how can you just look at a person and think 10/10 would fuck???
I’m not sex-repulsed — I don’t think sex is this awful terrible disgusting thing — I just have absolutely no interest in it for myself. People can bone who they wanna bone and if they wanna share the deets then sure, I’ll listen, because I’ll categorize it as research for writing. But I’ll never understand it fully, and I’m not in any real rush to.