Okay. I was seriously thrown by the title when this first crossed my dash (How dare he belittle her!), so I saved it to read after I had seen the film. Now I’ve seen it and I’m going through all my read-later-links and OH MY GOD YES ALL OF THE THINGS I AGREE ALL THE WAY I’M NOT CRYING YOU’RE CRYING FINALLY SOMEONE GETS IT!!!
It does contain *!!* SPOILERS *!!* so if you haven’t seen the film yet, fave it or reblog it or whatever to come back to later, because this is too good a read to miss.
The title is seriously misleading, guys, but this is a great read. Though yes, there are HUGE SPOILERS for TFA.
spoilers abound, but super important